Nesting: Preparing for A New Baby, Part 1

by Mandi on July 15, 2009

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Sometimes I think I live in a permanent state of nesting, always looking for ways to make our run more simply, be more organized and have less clutter. But then the real nesting kicks in, and I start noticing things in a kind of 4D vision that makes me want to clean and organize frantically despite the loud protest of my hips and back, and I realize there’s a difference between nesting and nesting, if you know what I mean.

We are officially counting down to our newest Baby Girl’s arrival. Although my due date is technically nine weeks away, my last two have both been two to three weeks early, and so we’re preparing for this one’s arrival in about six weeks. I figure I might have to wait a little bit longer, but at least I know everything will be ready if she shows up when we think she will!

I’ll wait to tackle most of the items on my to-do list until August (which seems to be approaching at the speed of light), but I also know that time flies these days, and getting things done ahead of time will make us all feel better as her due date approaches.

Here’s the list as it stands today:

1. Make princess hats and wands for the big sisters.
2. Stock freezer and pantry (this is a work in progress!).
3. Research tips and tricks for taking newborn photos.
4. Finish sewing second fleece crib sheet.
5. Move our youngest daughter to an upstairs bedroom.
6. Change the height of the crib back to newborn level.
7. Buy, paint and hang shelf and letters over crib.
8. Find and hang a curtain to serve as the door for the nursery (more on our converted nursery soon!).
9. Clean and set up the cradle, mobile, swing and bouncy seat.
10. Rearrange carseats and install the fourth.
11. Setup a TV in the guest room for my mom.
12. Pack hospital bag.
13. Pack activity bags for the girls for the hospital.

We washed, sorted and put away all of the clothes and blankets while my grandma was visiting more than two months ago, so those are ready to go already.

What does preparing for a new baby look like in your home?

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  • http://momnow.wordpress.com Krys

    Mandi, I went through a similar *nesting* phase about 3 months before my daughter was born. It was like I had Superman’s X-Ray vision for cutting out clutter! And, now that my daughter is here, I’ve lost that superhuman ability to cut through the clutter and get the house running smoothly. I want it back!

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  • http://momnow.wordpress.com Krys

    Mandi, I went through a similar *nesting* phase about 3 months before my daughter was born. It was like I had Superman’s X-Ray vision for cutting out clutter! And, now that my daughter is here, I’ve lost that superhuman ability to cut through the clutter and get the house running smoothly. I want it back!

    Krys’s last blog post…4 Months

  • Mandi

    LOL! I hear you on that. I’m sure you’ll find a happy medium as she gets older!

  • Mandi

    LOL! I hear you on that. I’m sure you’ll find a happy medium as she gets older!

  • http://www.organizing-life.com Abbie

    I am so excited for you that you are coming down the back stretch and that you’ll be welcoming someone new very soon! I was always so eager to meet that new little person. For my son, it was a whirlwind of clothing, last minute baby showers, pasting up a wall boarder, and finding the perfect blue curtain rod to finish off his peek-a-pooh decor nursery…..ahhh. For my daughter, we didn’t really have a nesting stage…she came 5 weeks early unexpectedly and we didn’t have anything ready. She did have a short stay in NICU, so we were able to install the car-seat, buy premie clothing, set up the nursery, and do tons of laundry before she came home.
    And I agree with the first commenter, I am just coming up for a little breath of organization now that my two are able to hang on for a couple of minutes. It has been a pretty disorganized past few years!
    Good luck to you! Abbie

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  • http://www.organizing-life.com Abbie

    I am so excited for you that you are coming down the back stretch and that you’ll be welcoming someone new very soon! I was always so eager to meet that new little person. For my son, it was a whirlwind of clothing, last minute baby showers, pasting up a wall boarder, and finding the perfect blue curtain rod to finish off his peek-a-pooh decor nursery…..ahhh. For my daughter, we didn’t really have a nesting stage…she came 5 weeks early unexpectedly and we didn’t have anything ready. She did have a short stay in NICU, so we were able to install the car-seat, buy premie clothing, set up the nursery, and do tons of laundry before she came home.
    And I agree with the first commenter, I am just coming up for a little breath of organization now that my two are able to hang on for a couple of minutes. It has been a pretty disorganized past few years!
    Good luck to you! Abbie

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  • http://babyfriday.blogspot.com/ sarah

    I didn’t feel at all prepared! My son came a few days late, and we were moving 2000 miles just a week afterward (I had a 2 week pit stop at my parents’ house before I could move the newborn). My son didn’t have a nursery, a stroller, even a crib for a long time. He has a room now (he’s turning 1 in about a week), but it’s still in disarray.

  • http://babyfriday.blogspot.com/ sarah

    I didn’t feel at all prepared! My son came a few days late, and we were moving 2000 miles just a week afterward (I had a 2 week pit stop at my parents’ house before I could move the newborn). My son didn’t have a nursery, a stroller, even a crib for a long time. He has a room now (he’s turning 1 in about a week), but it’s still in disarray.

  • http://freetolearnanlovinit.blogspot.com Rana

    I’m sending this post to my sister. She just found out she is having a boy today. She has been doing the nesting thing lately and she is in her 5th month. Right now she is starting to think about what to take to the hospital and getting all of her things together. Great post and congrats on the new baby girl.

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  • http://freetolearnanlovinit.blogspot.com Rana

    I’m sending this post to my sister. She just found out she is having a boy today. She has been doing the nesting thing lately and she is in her 5th month. Right now she is starting to think about what to take to the hospital and getting all of her things together. Great post and congrats on the new baby girl.

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  • Amanda

    My baby girl was born two months ago and I think one of the best things I did was stack the freezer full of meals. Activity bags for your girls for the hospital sound like a great idea. I think it’s also important to rest up and relax as much as you can in the last few weeks before your baby is due (after everything is organized) as once your baby arrives, this become all the more difficult!!

  • Amanda

    My baby girl was born two months ago and I think one of the best things I did was stack the freezer full of meals. Activity bags for your girls for the hospital sound like a great idea. I think it’s also important to rest up and relax as much as you can in the last few weeks before your baby is due (after everything is organized) as once your baby arrives, this become all the more difficult!!

  • http://freebates.blogspot.com Lori

    I love reading all your prep posts. When I found out I was pregnant we were living with my inlaws as we rebuilt our house. So I couldn’t really nest! We moved home about 2 mos before my son was born. In the kitchen we had a fridge, a microwave, a toaster oven, and a slop sink. No counters or cabinets or anything, but we brought our patio table inside. We didn’t even have a couch in the living room. We sat on camping chairs! I did make sure his room was as done as I could get it. That was about the only room in the house that was done! We finally got a couch and eventually things got back together but it was a long process. I don’t really know what the nesting feeling is like since I was trying to put everything together as it was.

    We’ll probably have another baby one day, so I’m saving all these posts as reference for when I get this instinct pop up!

    Good luck!

  • http://freebates.blogspot.com Lori

    I love reading all your prep posts. When I found out I was pregnant we were living with my inlaws as we rebuilt our house. So I couldn’t really nest! We moved home about 2 mos before my son was born. In the kitchen we had a fridge, a microwave, a toaster oven, and a slop sink. No counters or cabinets or anything, but we brought our patio table inside. We didn’t even have a couch in the living room. We sat on camping chairs! I did make sure his room was as done as I could get it. That was about the only room in the house that was done! We finally got a couch and eventually things got back together but it was a long process. I don’t really know what the nesting feeling is like since I was trying to put everything together as it was.

    We’ll probably have another baby one day, so I’m saving all these posts as reference for when I get this instinct pop up!

    Good luck!

  • Mandi

    Dude, we’re TWINS! We moved 4 weeks before our last daughter was born into an unfinished home. I hear ya all the way! Her nursery was THE only thing done!

  • Mandi

    Dude, we’re TWINS! We moved 4 weeks before our last daughter was born into an unfinished home. I hear ya all the way! Her nursery was THE only thing done!

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  • AllieZirkle

    Love this!! And I didn’t realize you were in Peoria! We moved from CA to Surprise, AZ, and we know what you’re saying. We chose a “smaller” 2,400 sq ft house over the average 3,000 sq ft as most in our area are larger. We have kids doubled up in rooms and are ok with it, even when most people are surprised an make comments about children needing their own space. Please! Sharing is caring! :) I do love saving on all aspects. This hits right at home.

    Ps my husband teaches in Peoria and loves the district too

  • Cynde

    We just did the same thing as you. Having a smaller home is so much better! Reading you post was like reading our own story, except for a couple of things….we stayed in the same town and we downsized from 4000 sq feet to 1700 sq feet…how freeing it is!!!

  • Melissa

    We just moved cross country this summer as well. We ended up with a bigger place, and I am sure missing our smaller apartment. We are only renting, so we haven’t really committed. And the only reason we have this space is GOD has blessed us and a nice lady from church wanted to help a “new, young Christian family” and is charging us less rent than the much smaller places we looked at. That said, the cleaning does take much longer. The kids’ rooms are much farther from us than they were previously, which I hate. Utilities are better, but that’s thanks to climate. (Dallas to Seattle… cut out that air conditioning bill and you have hundreds in instant savings!) But there always more work to be done…

    So I love this post. In our family we always say we will happily make the trade for more time together, with less space. It seems to have the extra space, you are forced to live much farther out of the city, and then commit to lots of time commuting each day. My husband’s 10 minute commute is the most worthwhile reason for me. (Although cleaning is a close second!)

  • Littlegreenbuddha

     Another benefit that swayed us to having a smaller home is that we will not have to think of down sizing when our children grow up and leave. I really want to stay in my home forever. I don’t want to have to consider moving when I am old, and leaving my home behind. 

  • Anonymous

    We are just beginning our search for a smaller home.  One thing I know is having a smaller home will definitely keep me from acquiring more stuff.  Plus I hope to know where everything is, at any given moment.  No more attics, and basements full of containers.

  • Sylvia

     totally agree with this.  I grew up in a 3000 sq ft house as an only child with an acre yard and all I can recall growing up was doing endless chores (scrubbing floors), weeding (6 wks in the summer from sun up to sun down), mowing the yard and I always looked forward to going to school to get away from my chores.  So, when we moved recently from a TH to a SFH in a better school district, we settled with a 1555 sq ft 1 floor house in a great neighborhood.  There’s plenty of space for the 4 of us but we won’t be locked down to spending all our free time doing stuff we don’t like to do - chores!

  • Sheila

    This is great and so true.  We have a beautiful 1 acre wooded lot in Alaska, which I love, and a lovely 1700 sq ft home, in which we pack 6 people (me, husband, four growing kids).  I couldn’t be happier!  We will have the modest home paid off before retirement.  I can’t even imagine  being saddled with a huge home and a huge mortgage.  We are being minimalist and it is a great life!

  • Jonatahn

    I realize that 1700 square foot is smaller than your previous home, but its far from a “small” home in my opinion. The average US home was smaller than 1700 square foot until 1987. Even today the average home is smaller than 1700 square feet in many countries, including the UK, Ireland, Spain, France, and Denmark. Do you think that these 10 advantages apply to even smaller homes? If not, where do you feel is the point of diminishing returns?

  • thebuddinglotus.com

    My husband and I lived in a 800sq.ft house (2 bdrm & full unfinished basement) a few years ago. Then we decided to move into a 1500sq.ft home and discovered we hated all the extra space, even with having two dogs. There was so much more to clean, so much more empty space to heat, and it was just plain inconvenient to have so much room (takes more time to go to the bathroom!). Now, we’ve moved to Costa Rica and are very happily living in a smaller dwelling again: 750 sq.ft, 2 bedrooms, and no basement or even closet space to fill up with junk. The best part is, we rent! We always have and may never buy. Just like with stuff, your house really owns you and can keep you from enjoying freedoms you could otherwise have. Cheers!

  • http://joyceandnorm.wordpress.com Joyce and Norm

    Less to clean is saving my sanity! I would never want a big house. The only reason I can think of is to entertain more friends/family, or have a guest space when we have visitors, but that’s about it.

  • Michelle

    We downsized this year in terms of sq. ftg, bathrooms, bedrooms, levels, etc.  It wasn’t cheaper than our old house though, as our old house was a “starter” house and our new house is on a view lot.  BUT, aside from the cheaper mortgage we have noticed ALL the other perks you listed and couldn’t be happier. :)   Let’s hear it for cleaning 2 toilets instead of 4!!

  • Sharle Kinnear

    I remember having a 1700 sqft house and thinking it was waaaay too big to keep clean!  I raised 3 kids in 1400 sqft, and now live in 1250 (kids are grown).   Throughout my life I have upsized, then continually downsized.  I dream of a time when I can live comfortably and beautifully in an even smaller home. 

  • http://twitter.com/joshua_becker Joshua Becker

    Nice addition. And to add to it, there’s less need to think about downsizing if income begins to fluctuate. 

  • http://twitter.com/joshua_becker Joshua Becker

    I imagine so! Thanks for the comment Cynde.

  • http://twitter.com/joshua_becker Joshua Becker

    Thanks Michelle. We upscaled a bit as well, but only because we bought smaller were we able to pursue that as well. A small, quality built house is far better than a large, cheaply-built home.

  • http://twitter.com/joshua_becker Joshua Becker

    The point of diminishing returns begins when your home is too small to accomplish your greatest goals in life… or when it is too big to accomplish your greatest goals. We have specific things that we’d like to be able to accomplish with our home: entertaining guests, hosting small groups, opportunity to house guests overnight, space for kids to have their rooms, welcoming environment for our kid’s friends, work from home comfortably, etc. To that end, especially with two young children, the space seems to allow us to pursue our passions while not distracting from them (as our larger home seemed to be doing).

  • Sarah

    I’ve certainly never wanted too much home, but enough might be nice. We’d definitely get more for our money if we could move back to the Phoenix area. Someday, perhaps!

  • Jenni Courtney

    Oh such a great post. We live in a two bedroomed house, we bought it when we had two small kids… Our family grew and we just got rid of heaps of unnecessary stuff. Now we have eight kids and two bedrooms and it still works!!! Our ideas that all kids need a bedroom and a bed with a desk and a light and a bookshelf… well it is just madness and unnecessary, that idea literally flew out the window!!! I would hate to have a bigger house – the thought of finding the time is terrifying!!! And lets face it our oldest kid is fourteen now… a couple of years from now and our kids are going to start moving out… then why would we need a bigger house. So yes there are times when it is a squash and a squeeze but they will pass fast and I think our family is closer for it.

  • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

    My husband and I joke regularly about moving to Costa Rica…I’ll have to look you up if we’re ever brave enough to do it!

  • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

    I think you make a good point about yards too, Sylvia. Having a large lot was our number one priority, because it allows our children freedom to explore, discover, etc. However, we have only mowed a small portion of our lot because we don’t want to be burdened with the work of maintaining 2.5 acres of perfectly manicured lawn!

    There’s a house we pass on the way to church with what must be 10+ acres of yard, all of which is mowed, and I can only imagine the time or money they invest in it…and for what?!

  • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

    I agree, Allie — we have a 3 bedroom, and our 3 oldest share a room. When the baby’s ready to move in there, we’ll add built-in bunk beds and they’ll all share. We make sure they have time to themselves every day (as introverts ourselves!), and there are definite boundaries that we emphasize (special toys, etc. that aren’t shared), but having a room for each of them was never important to us either!

  • http://twitter.com/Annienygma Annie

    My daughter and I moved into a 1 bedroom house this time. She gets the bedroom and I get a futon in the living room that is folded away by day. Rent is $250 – much less than we would have paid for a 2 bedroom. As a kid she needed her space but for me I couldn’t see paying extra for a room I would only use just a few hours at night. Instead the living room gets double duty and a spare recess has become my closet. My “dresser” is part of a kitchen cabinet.

    Unconventional but it works. Gotta love minimalism!

  • http://www.facebook.com/iggyearthlizard Iggy Earthlizard

    Nice article.  I recently went through a similar experience back in January when I had to move my family into a smaller space.  You really do not realize how much junk you acquire till you have to put it all somewhere.  We have come to really enjoy the small space and intend to build our new house with small in mind.

  • Anne

    Another benefit is increased security. When I lived in a bigger house I could not be aware of the whole house at once. Living in a smaller house makes me feel safer. I am in South Africa so security and the feeling of safety is a big topic here.

  • Motomome

    All of your points are valid. But 1700 is not small. And comparing the house prices in Vermont to Arizona is not even realistic. In Az you can buy a 5000sf house for $130k. At this point anyone’s mortgage would be smaller moving to Az.

  • Deb

    That’s exactly what we did. Went from a 2800 sq ft house in town to 1200 sq ft on 5.5 acres of land with 200 assorted fruit trees and a huge garden. Best decision we ever made. :)

  • http://yeoldcollegetry.wordpress.com/ Katherine

    We just moved from 720 square feet to about 1400 this summer.  I don’t miss having to tell my kids to have “quiet feet” or reminding them to play with their toys on the carpet- our downstairs neighbor heard every noise we made upstairs.  But I do miss the smallness, the forced simplicity and minimalism, and the ease of cleaning.  In our new house, I love that we can have people over more comfortably. 

    Pros and cons, but I still lean toward smaller being better for us right now.  I’m in no hurry to upgrade anytime soon:) 

  • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

    I’m not sure Joshua ever said “a small house”. He said “a smaller house”. For their family, it was downsizing. He also mentions later in the comments that they decided not to go smaller because they want to be able to entertain, allow their kids to spread out, etc.

    I’m also fairly certain that his point about a smaller mortgage was comparing the cost of their current mortgage with the price of larger homes in AZ. Surely you can agree that smaller homes generally cost less?

  • Teresa

    We built our home in 1994 when our kids were 5 and 3 and we built our retirement home at that time – 1350 sq ft under roof + 150 sq ft in porch.  I planned on remaining here forever even then.  It was crowded over the years as the kids grew up, their friends all slept in sleeping bags when spending the night, but now as they are moving off to college I am looking forward to the days when the house will be just right with just the two of us.  The payments were always affordable and the house paid off 13 years into the 20 year mortgage.  There were times I wished for a bigger house, but sure wouldn’t change anything as I love my little house – it is snug, easy to clean, and really the perfect size for our family.

  • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

    I love this Teresa — thanks so much for sharing your experience!

  • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

    Thanks so much for sharing your story — what a perfect example of how smaller IS better!

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    Love these ideas! This is the first year that we are trying to eat more local, more seasonal. Great meals, will be checking it out!
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  • Jessica

    Getting a local-ish produce box has truly transformed our eating. And my family is getting used to winter greens, too! There’s a whole world of vegetables I never knew existed!

  • Jessica

    Ooh, that French Dip sounds good! Great idea!

  • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

    I imagine when you’re saving money on size, you can also invest more in getting EXACTLY what you want in your floor plan and fixtures!

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